Wednesday, June 3, 2015

Sheryl Sandberg's Thoughts On Grieving For Her Late Husband Are Heartbreaking

“I have lived 30 years in these 30 days. I am 30 years sadder. I feel like I am 30 years wiser.”

Wednesday marks 30 days since the burial of Dave Goldberg, SurveyMonkey CEO and husband of Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg, the author of Lean In.

Wednesday marks 30 days since the burial of Dave Goldberg, SurveyMonkey CEO and husband of Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg, the author of Lean In.

Sheryl Sandberg and Dave Goldberg.

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Goldberg died May 1 after suffering severe head trauma during a gym accident while on holiday in Mexico.

Goldberg died May 1 after suffering severe head trauma during a gym accident while on holiday in Mexico.

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To mark the end of sheloshim, the 30-day period of Jewish mourning, Sandberg shared a devastating, yet hauntingly beautiful, update on her journey through grief.

To mark the end of sheloshim, the 30-day period of Jewish mourning, Sandberg shared a devastating, yet hauntingly beautiful, update on her journey through grief.

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"You can give in to the void, the emptiness that fills your heart, your lungs, constricts your ability to think or even breathe. Or you can try to find meaning. These past thirty days, I have spent many of my moments lost in that void. And I know that many future moments will be consumed by the vast emptiness as well.

"But when I can, I want to choose life and meaning."


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A School Cafeteria Worker Says She Was Fired For Giving Hungry Kids Free Lunch

Della Curry said she knows what she did was against the law, but “I would do it again in a heartbeat.”

A school worker says she was fired by her district for giving away free lunches to children who did not have money to buy a meal.

A school worker says she was fired by her district for giving away free lunches to children who did not have money to buy a meal.

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Della Curry wrote in a post on Facebook on May 29 that the Cherry Creek School District, which is near Denver, let her go from her job as a kitchen manager at Dakota Valley Elementary School.

Della Curry wrote in a post on Facebook on May 29 that the Cherry Creek School District, which is near Denver, let her go from her job as a kitchen manager at Dakota Valley Elementary School.

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She wrote that she knew she was breaking the rules by "giving food to children that did not have money," but she has no regrets. "I do not feel bad about it and I would do it again in a heartbeat," she said.

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She claims this "sandwich" consists of a slice of cheese on a hamburger bun.

"I will never understand how the 'best' country in the world considers a cheese sandwich to be adequate nutrition for a child," Curry wrote on Facebook.


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Here's Why Having To Use "Real" Names On Facebook Is Putting Some People's Lives At Serious Risk

BuzzFeed News spoke to campaigners battling against the social media company’s “real name” policy.

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On Monday morning, hundreds of drag and burlesque performers, LGBTQ people, Native Americans, and survivors of domestic violence demonstrated outside of Facebook's headquarters in California, calling for the company to change its "real name" policy.

The policy, which has been in place since 2006 in an attempt to curb fake and spam accounts, has come in for heavy criticism in recent years. The company requires users to use their "authentic" name; meanwhile, imitating someone, or something, isn't allowed. "Facebook is a community where people use their authentic identities," it states on its help page. "We require people to provide the name they use in real life; that way, you always know who you're connecting with. This helps keep our community safe."

However, many Facebook users who cannot use their legal name are being targeted, reported, and suspended every day because of the policy, which they deem discriminatory. Some users require pseudonyms to protect themselves from harassment and harm, while others – such as transgender youths – wish to use a preferred name but lack the resources to obtain the legal identification required by Facebook as proof of identity.

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Last October, Facebook's chief product officer, Chris Cox, addressed the concern and said the company would make significant changes to the policy and its enforcement. "I want to apologise to the affected community of drag queens, drag kings, transgender, and extensive community of our friends, neighbors, and members of the LGBT community for the hardship that we've put you through in dealing with your Facebook accounts over the past few weeks," he said.

However, since Cox made the statement, little has been addressed – until this week. Justin Osofsky, vice president of global operations, and Monika Bickert, head of global product policy, told BuzzFeed News that the company is "committed" to the authentic policy but will be making "significant improvements" to improve the safety of its users. In a statement on Facebook, the company apologised for making it difficult for users to confirm their authentic identity, and said that with the guidance of "local and national members of the LGBTQ community and others", it is making the following changes:

– It won't be suspending accounts while users verify or update their name.
– It will be expanding the options of what documents people need to provide to verify their name to includes items such as a piece of mail or a library card.
– The language used on its site has been clarified to "make it clear" that the name required does not need to be a legal name.


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Josh Duggar Reportedly Confessed Three Times To Molesting His Sisters

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New details of Josh Duggar's molestation scandal emerged Wednesday, shedding light on much his parents, Jim Bob and Michelle, knew and for how long they allegedly waited to tell authorities.

According to a police report obtained by In Touch, the oldest son of TLC’s 19 Kids and Counting told his father on three separate occasions to sexually molesting his sisters. But the Duggars waited at least 16 months before contacting authorities or getting their son or daughters professional counseling, according to the reports.

In the newly-obtained report, Duggar, now 27, told his father of at least seven acts of sexual molestation against his sisters, starting from when he was 15 years old.

“James said that in March of 2002 [Josh] who had just turned 14, came to him very upset and crying,” according to the report. “James said that [Josh] had told him that he had been sneaking into [his sisters’] room at night and had been touching [his sisters] on the breasts and vaginal areas while they were sleeping.”

The report went on to say that he molested several of his sisters, who were all "sleeping in a common room at this time."

When police began investigating Duggar, the statue of limitations had expired.

LINK: Josh Duggar Apologizes Amid Sex Abuse Reports, Quits Family Research Council




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Tuesday, June 2, 2015

Drought Is Costing California A Fortune

A new study projects agriculture losses of $2.7 billion for the state’s massive agriculture industry alone, including the evaporation of more than 18,000 jobs.

California's drought will cost the state's huge agricultural industry $2.7 billion this year, according to a new study released Tuesday.

California's drought will cost the state's huge agricultural industry $2.7 billion this year, according to a new study released Tuesday.

Dried mud and the remnants of a marina at the New Melones Lake reservoir on May 24, 2015.

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The study by researchers at the University of California, Davis, focused at how the drought is taking a toll on agriculture. It found that water shortages to farmers will cost the state $2.7 billion in 2015.

To put that in context, the median household income in California is $61,094. So that means the drought will cost the equivalent of about 44,194 median annual incomes.

Last year, the drought cost California $2.2 billion, so costs are rising as the water shortage drags on.

Last year, the drought cost California $2.2 billion, so costs are rising as the water shortage drags on.

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Farmers are facing larger water shortages in 2015 than they faced in 2014. They can make up some of the difference by ground wells and buying water elsewhere, but that won't entirely make up the difference.

Richard Howitt, a researcher at UC Davis who co-authored the study, told BuzzFeed News that as a result, farmers are switching out crops, uprooting trees, and finding ways to reduce the amount of water they need.

"The crops they cut are the least valuable ones," Howitt said.


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Deferred Action Program For Undocumented Immigrants Generated $422.4 Million In Fees

Immigrant rights advocates pointed to the money, generated since 2012, as an example that the Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals program is working. Meanwhile, efforts to expand the program remain stalled in federal court.

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A 2012 program that has provided nearly 1 million undocumented immigrant youth work permits and protection from deportation has also generated roughly $422.4 million in application fees, according to federal data released Tuesday.

About 908,500 immigrants who were enrolled in the Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals (DACA) program, or who were renewed, each paid a $380 filing charge and $85 for fingerprints and photo, according to the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services Agency.

Immigration activists pointed to the new data as proof that the DACA works.

"DACA is a model for what progress on immigration looks like — changed lives of people who came forward, followed the process and paid their fees — over $422 million so far," said Cristina Jimenez, managing director of United We Dream, one of the largest immigrant youth organizations in the U.S.

But President Obama's efforts to expand deferred action — including one program that would extend deportation protections to undocumented parents of U.S. citizens and permanent residents — have stalled in federal court. Republican leaders in 26 states successfully blocked the programs after they were introduced in November 2014 by filing a joint lawsuit, arguing that they amounted to de facto amnesty.

Obama has argued that the government should focus on deporting "felons, not families." Supports also argued that allowing millions of immigrants to work legally would have widespread economic benefits.

But in May, the 5th Circuit Court of Appeals let the federal injunction stand, keeping millions of undocumented, potentially eligible immigrants from enrolling.

Jimenez said Republican votes against the program and their "frivolous lawsuit" are trying to shut the door on millions of people who would otherwise come forward and potentially generate an additional $2.4 billion in first-time application fees, "not to mention renewals and the benefits to our economy of new businesses and jobs."

LINK: Appeals Court Keeps Obama’s Immigration Program On Hold

LINK: Appeals Court Keeps Obama’s Immigration Program On Hold


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Knife-Wielding Man In Boston Killed By Terrorism Investigators

Police said Usaama Rahim lunged at officers who were trying to question him about “terrorist-related information.” His brother, though, claims he was waiting for a bus to go to work at the time and shot in the back.

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A man under 24-hour surveillance by a terrorism task force was fatally shot Tuesday in Boston after investigators stopped him for questioning, authorities said.

Boston Police Commissioner William Evans told reporters that Usaama Rahim, 26, lunged at members of a joint terrorism task force with what authorities described as a military-style knife, the Associated Press reported. The investigators had approached Rahim to question him about "terrorist-related information," Evans said.

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Rahim's brother on Tuesday said he had been waiting for a bus to go to work when officers approached him.

"He was confronted by three Boston Police officers and subsequently shot in the back three times," Ibrahim Rahim wrote on Facebook.

His brother had also called their father as a witness as police approached, Ibrahim Rahim added.

"His last words to my father who heard the shots were: I can't breathe!" Rahim wrote.

Usaama Rahim was struck once in the torso and once in the abdomen, the AP reported. He was taken to a hospital, where he died.


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